Your Holistic Approach to Wellness Can Lead to Getting More Dates

by April Braswell

April Braswell is a leading Dating and Relationship Coach, specializing in Online Dating Coaching and working with clients over 40.

In my work as a dating and relationship coach, Dr. Michael Roth and I are very aligned in our philosophy.  While I have a sub-specialty of online dating coach work with my clients, that is really just one piece in the whole picture.  Just as Dr. Roth takes a holistic approach to working with his health clients and seeks to foster total health and wellness, not “just do” chiropractic work, so when I work with my dating and relationship clients, I seek to empower them with learning and practicing great communication skills – for LIFE and for creating satisfying and fulfilling long-term relationships.

With that, you’re probably wondering, “Well, April, that sounds great, but what do you mean?”

Thank you for asking!

Well, typically lot of clients when they either approach me or are referred to me will first tell me, “April!  I want to GET MARRIED.”

That’s great.

I am delighted for them that they have that as a life desire and are seeking great coaching and mentoring to achieve that.

However, their very THINKING is skewed to work against them.

First, to GET MARRIED is just a MOMENT IN TIME.

Well, what about the courtship, the creating the relationship, and oh, say, the next 5, 7, 13, and 24 years of married life?  What about THOSE?

Second, the brain can’t PICTURE how to GET THERE to what is “GET MARRIED.”

So, it’s like this isolated idea in the brain.

And none of the happy little neuro-pathways which already exist know how to connect THAT IDEA with OTHER IDEAS to actually bring it to realization.

Some ways to communicate with yourself that will express that same and which will also LEVERAGE the way your brain actually DOES work is to say, “April, I want to attract and create a great romantic relationship leading to marriage.”  Ok, so the full realities of life will mean you will probably write out a paragraph eventually while we are working together to describe what you personally truly desire.  However, that one little example can already HELP YOU to get started.  And once started, you then are no longer inert and have some momentum to leverage.

Happy Relationships to you!

April Braswell

Online Dating and Relationship Coach